Hi my name is Gina Hernandez I found your baby's web site and I just wanted to say how sorry I'am for your loss ...I too lost my baby boy Javi 2 hours after he was born..I know how hard the pain is....I'd like to think that our baby's in heaven are happy , healthy and play on the clouds of heaven together, it is us as moms who have a hard time dealing because we love and miss them so very much but they are in the most perfect place and we will be together with them on day...May the lord keep shining his bright sweet light upon you and your family ......I'am here for you ....if you ever get a chance to visit my baby Javi's memory page www.babyjavi.memory-of.com My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ((HUGS)) Gina Hernandez (baby Javi & Isaiah mommy)
Sweet baby / Visitor Sweet Baby
Dear Sweet Baby, so perfect, so still.
The day you were born God cried for you as your parents did too.
Your journey into this world was never meant to be completed
- how painful for those who anticipated your arrival.
Your mother wept, your father wept, your aunts, uncles, and grandparents wept,
Even those who had not so looked forward to your arrival,
but helped in you into this world wept.
I hold you in my arms so perfect, so beautiful,
please…please baby wake up….your body is limp -
how my heart aches to see you this way.
Your skin is like Ivory. Your mom holds you so close as she says goodbye…
she feels your cheek next to hers and lovingly kisses you,
then sadly turns her face as she hands you to me.
Your daddy gently takes you and rocks with his tears rolling down his face.
He is torn between saying goodbye to you and leaving his wife's side,
who is crying and bleeding.
I feel only a part of their pain. I leave to weep silently and quickly.
I must be strong for them. As they begin a journey they never anticipated.
Your mom bleeds as her tears roll down her face.
I finally take you. I want to wake you.
You lay in my arms as though you are sleeping.
As I wrap you a final time,
I can't help but to look at your perfect body and wonder "WHY?".
I know why though.
Not every baby is meant to have a journey in this world that we know.
You were not ready. You go on in a journey I can not imagine.
It hurt to finish wrapping you.
To leave you in blankets alone leaves you too vulnerable to
those who are curious to see "the baby"
so I must finish after the blankets.
I cannot take you downstairs - ohhh my heart aches,
my eyes burn from trying to not cry and be strong.
Your mother still bleeds. I know why, she has lost the most important thing to her
- her baby.
Why should her body stop bleeding?
If she will slow down until she can see she must do as your dad is doing.
To look beyond, to see her husband is here.
He is to live for now, until she can live for herself, again .
Maybe, hopefully, someday, they can anticipate again.
With tears of joy rather than sorrow after the labor of birth.
CHAIN OF COMFORT / SELMA FLYNN AT 1000PM ON AUG 1 PLEASE LITE A CANDLE FOR NATHAN
THANK YOU SELMA FLYNN
www.bobbo.memory-of.com
Do you remember / Janetta Grigsby (Visitor) ~Do You Remember~
Do you remember all the days, the hours, the moments
That you shared your life with me, nestled in my womb?
The feelings of joy, the happiness I felt knowing you were there?
I do. Do you remember the day I lost you, that day filled with gloom?
When I felt my world collapse around me, my heart filling with regret
At the thought of you just dying inside of me? Yes, I do.
Can you remember me talking softly to you while you were growing
Inside of me? Telling you all of our plans, even your name?
I can. Do you remember hearing my voice singing softly to you?
Can you still feel all my love for you even though you have left?
I feel it still. Do you feel it baby, do you remember me, your mummy?
I hope so sweetheart, for you are still locked in my heart, locked so
Tightly, and I'll never let you go 'til it stops beating and I see you
In Heaven, and you say, 'Mummy, I remember you, yes,
I remember it all.'
~Dawn Glenton~
I Am Soooo Sorry *Tears* / Melissa's Grandma I am so sorry for the loss of your tiny Nathan.. My heart goes out to you and please know you are in my prayers.. We lost a little grand-daughter in June of this year.. I don't think there is a greater pain when there is a loss of a child.. I hope you can get into a support group that may be offered in your area.. It helps to heal when we talk and express feelings within.. Check and see if your area offers "Empty Arms" and also "Halos" Blessings and (((hugs))) to you from me. You are welcome to visit our little Melissa's site.. http://melissa-carlie-adams.memory-of.com/About.aspx
Precious Angel / Jennifer Boutte (Another Angel Mom ) Thank you for allowing me to visit your Angel's site...it is beauitful...what a handsome young man....I too am an Angel Mom, no one should ever have to know this pain..Please feel free to visit my Angels site. If you ever need a friend, i will be here... Jen mom to Kiah Grace~heart angel www.ourangelkiah.memory-of.com warmingthespirit@yahoo.com
Good Morning my precious little angel. I am missing you very much. I love you Nathan. I hope that you are having fun in Heaven with all the rest of the little children and that Jesus is showing you all the wonderful things in Heaven. Take care my little one until I see you again.
Precious baby boy / Sonja Anderson
I'm so very sorry for the loss of you beautiful baby boy. Thank you for visiting my daughter Jenna and leaving a message. I just wanted to let you know that you are not alone and I know the terrible pain of losing a little child. I just hope someday this will make some kind of sense to us, because I just do not understand why these precious lives have to be taken. God Bless you and your family and I know your little nathan is with my Jenna in God's Playground....... Close
My mom is a survivor / Janetta Grigsby (None)Read >>
My mom is a survivor / Janetta Grigsby (None)
My Mom is a survivor,
or so I've heard it said.
But I can hear her crying at night
when all others are in bed.
I watch her lay awake at night
and go to hold her hand.
She doesn' know I 'm with her
to help her understand.
But like the sands on the beach
that never wash away...
I watch over my survivng mom,
who thinks of me each day.
She wears a smile for others..
a smile of disguise!
But through Heaven's door I see
tears flowing from her eyes.
My mom tries to cope with death
to keep my memory alive.
But anyone who knows her knows
it is her way to survive.
As I watch over my surviving mom
through Heaven's open door..
I try to tell her that angels
protect me forevermore.
I know that doesn't help her...
or ease the burden she bears,
So if you get a chance, go visit her...
and show her that you care.
For no matter what she says...
no matter what she feels,
My surviving mom has a broken heart
that time won't ever heal.
Janetta Grigsby
http://austin-jacob-and-alexis-grigsby.memory-of.com. Close
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